What if we heard ‘I don't know’ not as a declaration of ignorance but rather an appeal for intimacy? Or better yet, what if we began to make this call ourselves? But, then how do we reconcile our care for those that are insensitive, abusive, or repulsive? In this presentation, I will hold the work of Deborah Bird Rose, Johanna Macy, Sun-Ha Hong, Karen Barad, and Donna Haraway close to me as I slowly tread around and within the space made by not knowing through intimacy. I offer intimacy as embrace and as resistance, making space for the unexplainable, the unfathomable, and the messy in a multitude of bodies, shapes, and forms.